She holds her hands a few pounds, re -counted them again and again, gathering all the tricks and ideas that are difficult for any economic expert to find a solution that makes eight pounds enough to lunch her family consisting of 5 individuals.
The husband and children will return to the house to find each of them ready, and if it is not so, the husband revolts and all accusations are poured into her: "Do you do, what all day, I return to the two sins of Malikish to a summit, I am a boredom."..You bear all criticisms, and rush to put food in front of them, while criticism continues from the small and the big: "Eh this pasta, we are bored of the ritual, the eating is not sweet"..She bears all comments and criticisms, delays her hand and slowly eats in an attempt to provide some values for the husband and children, and none of them care whether she is full or not, while she is all careful with them, and leaves food before she is satisfied.
In one of the food groups on the social networking site "Facebook", a woman sent a question saying that she has a quarter of a kilogram of minced meat and has only 8 pounds, including preparing a lunch for a family of 5 individuals.The situation, answers that reveal the capabilities of the Egyptian woman and what they bear in a time when the prices of everything increased, and they are more affected by raising prices, and more than one who bears the cost of the high cost, it is required that the fixed income is sufficient for all that is variable of food and drink expenses, teaching children and private lessonsAnd treatment, rent, electricity, clothes and water, and if one day it is unable to solve this difficult equation, the accusations are inflicted on it, especially if the husband is of that ungrateful type that cannot be done by his wife and what she suffers until the house becomes hidden.
He leaves her responsibility for everything, following children in schools, lessons and family duties and solving all the problems that occur, escaping from the "dug of children" to cafes and friends' meetings, or to other relationships that he says to them that his poor wife does not hear from him, citing their shortcomings, whereHe sees that he is supposed to carry all these burdens without complaint or shortening.
Many women tried to overcome the high cost of living and manage the expenses of the house by selling some products or clothes and foods, the wife plays all games and walks on all the ropes in order to go life, do not think about buying a new shoe, dress or bag for herself, but you think all the time to saveHome expenses, school expenses, lessons, children's clothes, husband, and girls ’apparatus, while many husbands only think about themselves, their appearance and comfort, and he does not think about what his wife needs and what he prohibits herself from him, accusing her of distress and lack of interest in him or herself without asking himself about the amount of pressure thatYou suffer.
Some husbands believe that the wife is ongoing or a maid to them, and even for their family, and there are some wives who are added to her daily burdens.A duty imposed on his wife does not deserve a word of thanks or gratitude, although he himself is not able to do this task, the ungrateful husband does not know that religion did not impose on the wife these tasks, and that she does her with human, social, or even out of fear of him.
This ungrateful, when it becomes affordable, does not know from the Densse, the phrase "Muthanna, three and quarters", to invoke any argument for marriage again, a third, or a fourth, claiming that he is capable, and by fabricating any accusations of the wife who endured the days of misery more than him, he always talks about the rights of the husband and ignores the wife's rightsAnd how it was recommended by all religions, and he does not know anything about the mercy of our noble Prophet, how to treat him for his wives, and how he was helping the house's work and his commandments in the treatment of women.
This ungrateful does not know that this wife is the secret of concealment in the home and life, and that he cannot bear what she bears, always whipping her with his cruelty, denial, accusations, and a good word for her, does not realize that his affection, mercy and tenderness on it reduces many of its sisters and daily suffering and gives it more strength and desireIn giving and sacrifice.
The ungrateful husband is ignorant of this treasure and the grace that God has bestowed upon him, to test his morals, religion, loyalty and affection, and unfortunately he will be failed in the test until he loses the key to concealment.